The Problem: u dont know me and i dont know u but ive seen the advice u give to others and i need some help with something would u be willing to help with some of ur grateful advice
Asked by: dawn2dusk at
01:38:13 PM, Thursday, June 02, 2016 EDT
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I'm willing to hear what you have to say so long as it's sincere.
well ive been feeling highly deressed lately i tried to distract myself with things that usually make me feel better or make me happy but it hasnt helped much my dad recently gave up on me my parents are divorced and he was incredibly mentally abusive he lessoned and soon stopped shortly after the divorce it got to the point were he eventually ignored me and payed all his attention to my siblings so i explained that i didn't want to be ignored and he told me to get out of his house and to never come back but he wants my siblings to still come to his house i miss him and want to go back and not having him on my life makes me feel empty i need some help someone i could just talk to or have around when i need them i dont have any friends and my mom and stepdad work all the time it makes me feel worse and hollowed could you help by giving some advice or at least a bit of reassurance im just scared of relapsing
dawn2duskJun 05 2016 4:14pmFLAGDistractions will only work for so long. Every problem has a core, a center. If you fix that then everything else falls into place. As for your dad, not much I can say there but be in his life as much as you can but never let go of who you are as a person to be who he needs you to be. If he can't accept you for who you are then he is not fit to be a father.